Then the spirit came upon Amasai, who was chief of the captains, and he said, thine are we, David, and on thy side, thou son of Jesse: peace, peace,be unto thee and peace be to thine helpers,for thy God helpth thee, and made them captains of the band.
Do you find it easy to list the qualities you want in a mate? Most do, However, what about your own qualities? what traits do you have that will help you contribute to a successful relationship, what type of wife or husband will you be? for example, do you admit your mistakes and listen to advice or are you always defensive when corrected? Are you generally cheerful and optimistic,or do you tend to be gloomy.
If complaining, remember relationships will not change your personality, If you are proud, overly pessimistic, when single, you will be the same when involved. Since it is difficult to see ourselves the way others see us. The bible encourages us to let God's holy spirit work in us, producing qualities such as love,joy,peace,self-control and faith, it also tells us to be made new in the force actuating our minds and to put true righteousness.
Apply these counsel while you are still single it will be like depositing money in the bank-something that will prove very valuable in the future, when you do marry, it is not easy to find a person with all the virtues that were combined in Jesus Christ, I would say that Jesus is one of those men who are difficult to match and virtually impossible to surpass.