Giving life

If ye will fear the Lord, and serve him, and obey his voice, and not rebel against the commandment of the Lord, then shall both ye and also the king that reigneth over you continue following the Lord your God. Only fear the Lord, and serve him in truth with all your heart: for consider great things he have done for you. 
I want to master the art of talking to ordinary people in ordinary human terms, about "spirituality with or  without faith, I want to have compassion, and learn about right living....  Remember you are the one who decides how to feel and act based upon the ways you choose to perceive your life....
As simplistic and unnatural as it may sound, nothing has any meaning except the meaning we give it. Most of us have allowed the process interpretation to become automatic. But it's important to realize that we don't consciously take charge of our interpretations, outside forces will determine our world view....
In all intimate relationships,... partners alternately move toward each other, then back away to reestablish a sense of individuality or separateness.  The needs of individuals....  vary, of course,and so do the temporary or permanent balances that couples and families strike between togetherness and individuality: "Family life in any form has both costs and benefits.